我家小C因私自外出流浪归家后夜半独自兴奋在床上扑腾导致我家相公毁容
被我不理智地关入猫笼3小时……之后马上洗了澡……C宝贝吓到小便失禁……

今天那孩子已经变成我把他抱到哪他就卧那儿看着我，甚至放进猫沙盆他也不动弹！
平时吃东西比什么都积极，现在饿了也不叫唤！已经彻底吓坏了……
谁能帮帮我啊……拜托大家了！！！

[ 本帖最后由 minitty 于 2007-2-4 01:23 编辑 ]

spend more time to play with your cat, and your cat will know that you care him/her a lot.... hope it works... good luck

不会吧.....听起来好可怜啊...

生活照样进行。  不要做出什么特别的举动。

过短时间就会好的。

awww, 好可怜的baby. 希望小C早日恢复.

Keep your cat's routine as consistent as possible. Cats feel more confident if they know when to expect daily feeding, playing, cuddling, and grooming.

Active approach [very effective with kittens under 12 weeks of age]
-Sit with the frightened kitten on your lap and tenderly stroke the top of its head until it relaxes
-Towel can be gently wrapped around its body
-Speak to the cat in a quiet, soothing voice
-A delicious food treat or meal should always be the finale. The handler should stay near the kitten while it is eating.
***It is crucial that the handler not put the kitten back in its cage or special room until there is a clear sign of relaxation

Passive approach [generally better suited to the adult cat]
-Allowing the cat to approach the feared stimulus at its own speed (No physical restraint is used)
-It takes longer time period for recovery

General Info
Your cat may show the following behaviors when she is fearful:
-Fleeing
-Hiding
-Loss of control over bladder and/or bowels
-Freezing in place
-Aggression (which includes spitting, hissing, growling, swatting, biting, scratching, puffing fur and tail, arching back, swishing tail, and flattening ears)

Not to Do
-Do not punish your cat for her fearful behavior. Animals associate punishment with what they're doing at the time they're punished, so your cat is likely to associate any punishment you give her with you. This will only cause her to become fearful of you and she still won't understand why she's being punished.
-Do not force your cat to experience the object or situation that is causing her fear. For example, if she is afraid of a certain person, don't let that person try to pick her up and hold her; this will only make her more fearful of that person.

Source:
http://www.catsinternational.org ... he_fearful_cat.html
http://www.hsus.org/pets/pet_car ... s/fearful_cats.html

[ 本帖最后由 Phi_Nono 于 2007-2-4 13:23 编辑 ]

谢谢大家~ ~小C已经好多了~~已经开始正常进食活动

睡睡的时候表现得与我很亲近，但看眼神还是会害怕我

PHI_NONO兄……这么看来我是不是不应该再抱它直到他情绪完全平复呢……？

恢复是要一点时间的. 总之, 你现在怎样关爱他要保持到他基本正常 (但不要太勉强他).  反差太大, 他会失去信任的. 加油噢 : )

[ 本帖最后由 Phi_Nono 于 2007-2-4 17:34 编辑 ]

我家小C因私自外出流浪归家后夜半独自兴奋在床上扑腾导致我家相公毁容

...... 猫就是这样神经兮兮的，呵呵。

哈哈`
不用理他的``饿了自然会去吃的.
要发脾气.最好不要把他困住.你要拍他头.或后腿..别太大力或太小力.适中让他觉得你生气而打他.
我家的猫现在发现自己做错事.见我走过去。就会寻找最佳路线逃走.哈哈``
有时还一个看风.一个"犯案"~~~哈哈`

一个看风.一个"犯案"...强

小C昨天强暴了我的蚕丝被……不但泄欲还尿尿了……

犯案后他跳到床边怪叫一声躲起来，露出半个脑袋紧张地看着我……

我发现他神色不对回头一看……一切都已经来不及了……

这时候你要打他啊``把他放到他拉尿的地方.拍他头/..要凶的告诉他不可以.然后你一定要洗你的被子.不能留下尿味
不然....以后他会在上面再接再厉的`~~~~

whatever u do, don't push it

要打的~但不是很用力的打~要让他知道他做错了

Hitting is outdated cuz it's not the most effective way and there are other ways to achieve the result.  Some people will punish their pets like little kids, but they don't realize that their thought process is not exactly like human.  Some guidelines on cat discipline:

Don'ts
1. You can only punish a cat if you catch it in the act
It's too late to punish your cat and punishment is ineffective because the cat doesn't know why it's being punished. Putting a cats nose in its urine is a sure way to get the cat to think that YOU are the bad one. Using any means of punishment after the fact, will only confuse the cat and might well damage the relationship you have with it.

2. Never hit your cat
Cats do not respond well to hitting and doing so can damage the bond between you and your cat. First off, hitting a cat can hurt a cat and it may well bite you back in self defense if you attempt to hit it. Very quickly, the cat may learn to fear you. It is an old school approach that is outdated because better methods are available.

Do's
1. Squirt gun
If we catch the cat scratching the sofa, a blast of water will make it run away. If kept up regularly it won't take long until the cat stops scratching the sofa. Keep in mind that this technique is effective only when the cat doesn't see that you are the squirter. If kitty sees you, it will continue the behaviour when you aren't there.

2. Understand their nature
Sometimes cats will act or play rough with their owners and this is partly due to their predatory nature. Therefore cats should have appropriate toys to play with, toys they can chase and hunt. You need to play with them as well.

3. Repellents & noise making items
Reducing unwanted behaviours include placing certain smells that the cat doesn't like in areas that you want it to avoid. Cat's aren't big fans of orange peel smell and many commercially available types of pet repellents. You can also try using double sided tape. Cats don't like sticky sensations on their paws and will avoid this type of booby trap. Tin cans, plastic cups and other noise making items are good for convincing your cat that a jump on that counter is a bad idea.

Source: Pet.ca

-To deal with specific behavior, see: http://www.ehow.com/how_117316_correct-behavior-cats.html

People will treat their pets differently because of differing views about animals.  Some people view their pets as friends and will treat them humanely, while others view them as only toys or "just animal" and might not treat them as well.  However, if you do care about your cat, please be as gentle as possible.



[ 本帖最后由 Phi_Nono 于 2007-2-9 16:30 编辑 ]